UNPACK THE BAG
Because you don’t have to carry it alone.
Remember that feeling when you first put on the uniform? The pride, the purpose, the calling to serve? Now fast forward through the years of calls, the late nights, the wins and losses, the moments that changed you. They all go into what I call your duffle bag of memories.
Some memories make the bag lighter—the lives you’ve saved, the difference you’ve made, the moments that remind you why you chose this path. But others… they add weight. The pediatric calls that haunt you. The ones you replay at 3 AM. The calls that make you hug your kids a little tighter.
That’s why Unpack the Bag was created.
Because the weight of service shouldn’t be carried alone.
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Articles on Resiliency for First Responders
When the Helpers Need Help: Breaking the Silence in First Responder Culture
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The Art of Presence: Why Active Listening Matters in Emergency Services
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Strong Like Water: Redefining Resilience for First Responders
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Understanding Personality Combinations: When Traits Collide
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The Lion Personality: The Decisive Leader
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The Otter Personality: High Energy Leadership with Team Builder
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The Beaver Personality: The Meticulous Guardian of Standards and Safety
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The Golden Retriever Personality: The Compassionate Crew Member Who Builds Department Unity
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To Suffer Together: The True Meaning of Compassion
In a world of buzzwords and overused terminology, “compassion” risks becoming another empty phrase, particularly in emergency services where it appears in mission statements and training manuals. But when boots hit the ground and lives hang in the balance, what does compassion actually mean for those who answer the call?
Finding Strength in Vulnerability
When you’re trained to be the one others rely on in crisis, showing vulnerability can feel like weakness. Yet, as Maya Angelou powerfully stated, “There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.” For first responders, this untold story often carries the weight of countless challenging calls,
You Are Enough: Tips for Overcoming Addiction
As a first responder, you face challenges that most people can’t imagine. The daily exposure to trauma, stress, and human suffering can leave you feeling empty and searching for ways to fill that void. Today, let’s talk about what it truly means to be “enough” and how to nurture your
Unpack the Bag? Tips for Lightening the Load
As a first responder, you carry more than just your gear. Each call, each scene, each life-changing moment adds weight to an invisible bag you carry—your emotional and psychological burden. But what if the goal isn’t to completely unpack this bag? What if, instead, it’s about learning to carry it