
UNPACK THE BAG
Because you don’t have to carry it alone.
Remember that feeling when you first put on the uniform? The pride, the purpose, the calling to serve? Now fast forward through the years of calls, the late nights, the wins and losses, the moments that changed you. They all go into what I call your duffle bag of memories.
Some memories make the bag lighter—the lives you’ve saved, the difference you’ve made, the moments that remind you why you chose this path. But others… they add weight. The pediatric calls that haunt you. The ones you replay at 3 AM. The calls that make you hug your kids a little tighter.
That’s why Unpack the Bag was created.
Where First Responders Find Support
Every call, every scene, every life-changing moment adds something to your bag. At Unpack the Bag, we understand that weight. We’re here to help you navigate the unique challenges of emergency service life through:
Training That Makes a Difference
Resilience Awareness Training
Give your team practical tools to manage stress and prevent burnout. Learn more.
Personality Intelligence Training
Build stronger crews through better understanding of team dynamics. Learn more.
Resources You Can Trust
Our growing library of articles and resources covers topics that matter to first responders:
- Recognizing signs of compassion fatigue
- Managing the hypervigilance cycle
- Building resilience strategies that work
- Supporting fellow team members
- Strengthening department dynamics
For Departments
Help your teams thrive with:
- Customized training programs
- Free weekly content to keep the conversation going
- Leadership development resources
- Tools for building resilient crews
- Strategies for reducing turnover
- Practical solutions for common challenges
For Individual First Responders
Access free resources to:
- Develop effective coping strategies
- Connect with peers who understand
- Find practical support tools
- Understand why you’re experiencing the emotions and responses you’re experiencing
- Join our online Facebook Group
Because the weight of service shouldn’t be carried alone.
Need immediate support?
- Suicide and Crisis Lifeline 988
- Fire/EMS Helpline 1-888-731-FIRE (3473)
- Copline 1-800-267-5463
- Veteran’s Crisis Line 988 & press 1 or Text 838255
- Frontline Helpline 1-866-676-7500
Articles on Resiliency for First Responders

Comfort Objects: A First Responder’s Guide to Managing Stress and Trauma
Discover how comfort objects can help first responders manage stress and trauma. Learn the science behind transitional objects and practical ways to incorporate them into your coping toolkit.

Understanding and Overcoming Compassion Fatigue in Emergency Medical Services
On a cold winter morning, Bill sits in his rig after a difficult call, feeling a heaviness that wasn’t there when he started his career 15 years ago. At 42, he’s noticing changes that go beyond normal job stress. The enthusiasm that once defined his work as a first responder

A Natural Perspective to Understanding the Weight of Emotional Baggage
Just as winter trees bear the weight of ice and snow, first responders carry the emotional weight of their experiences. Understanding how to manage this emotional burden is crucial for long-term wellbeing and professional effectiveness. The Weight of the Past: Understanding Emotional Baggage As ice gradually accumulates on tree branches,

The Silent Weight We Carry: A Poetic Journey
Emergency medical professionals carry burdens far beyond their medical equipment. “The Weight We Carry” delves into the unseen challenges these professionals face daily – from missed family moments to the emotional toll of life-and-death decisions. Through vivid imagery and reflection, this poem opens a window into their world, acknowledging both

Finding Light: A Poem of Hope for Emergency Medical Workers
In the challenging world of emergency medical services, finding light amid darkness becomes both a necessity and an art. This poem acknowledges the profound impact of trauma while celebrating the transformative power of purpose. Through carefully crafted verses, we explore how EMTs and paramedics turn their challenging experiences into sources

The Window of Perception: How Life’s Experiences Shape Our View of Reality
Every human journey begins with crystal-clear windows to the world. Like a pristine beachfront vista, our earliest perceptions are untainted by judgment or preconception. Yet as life unfolds, our metaphorical windows gradually collect the fingerprints of experience, fundamentally altering how we see and interpret reality. The Clear Windows of Childhood

Finding Freedom in the Space Between
It was 3:11 AM when my phone rang. My mother’s voice cracked as she told me my dad was gone. An aortic aneurysm – something that I knew was preventable. Just hours earlier, I had been discussing similar symptoms with my boss, an ER physician of twenty years. “Those kidney

The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique: A First Responder’s Reset Button
As a first responder, your mind and body are constantly processing intense situations. When your adrenaline surges and your thoughts start racing, you need a quick, effective way to regain focus. The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique is your tactical tool for mental reset – no equipment needed. Why This Technique Works

Grounding Techniques for First Responders: Your Mental Reset Button in High-Stress Situations
As a first responder, your mind and body face intense challenges daily. When trauma, stress, or anxiety threaten to overwhelm you, grounding techniques can serve as your psychological anchor. These simple yet powerful methods help you regain focus and stability in challenging moments. The Power of Your Five Senses Your

Finding Peace in Your Palm: How Worry Stones Can Help Manage Anxiety
In today’s fast-paced world, finding simple yet effective tools for managing anxiety has become increasingly important. Enter the worry stone – a small but mighty companion that can help ground you during stressful moments and provide a tangible focus for mindfulness practices. The Ancient Art of Stone Soothing Worry stones

Finding Peace in the Present Moment: Maslow’s Wisdom & Simple Grounding Techniques
Do you ever find yourself caught between yesterday’s regrets and tomorrow’s worries? You’re not alone. As psychologist Abraham Maslow wisely noted, “I can feel guilty about the past, apprehensive about the future, but only in the present can I act. The ability to be in the present moment is a

The Hidden Weight: What My Career in EMS Taught Me About Burnout
The Invisible Backpack Every day, you put on your uniform, check your equipment, and prepare for whatever the shift might bring. But there’s another piece of equipment you carry – one that’s invisible yet just as real. It’s your emotional backpack, and unlike your medical supplies, you can’t just restock